I found this an interesting post with lots of interesting thoughts so I want to share it. This could be a good starting point for some musings of my own.
Not many really understand this concept. I have said this many many times if you are a new Dominant just entering the lifestyle find a good mentor. Actually finding a good mentor can be just as hard as finding a partner in the lifestyle.
Although we each run our house different, rules, and protocols, it is still good to have someone on the outside to get advice from.
There are a few things to consider if your not planning on any kind of mentor. Impact play, where to hit and where not to hit, I have blogged about this type of play and the dangers. Rope bondage if you do not know what you are doing, you can do damage, muscles, and tendons. The last thing we want to do is hurt ours
So your married and both have agreed to enter a TPE relationship this is a huge task…
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